Guest Book

Juliet Evanson

Thursday, November 29, 2012

Hello Jessica and Marvin, a Big Congratulations to you, I want to send the pics that i took at Joslyns the night I sang for you . i need your email. Look forward to hearing from you.


Friday, November 23, 2012

WOW! Just two days to go before the BIG DAY! I Hope that life offers you the best that GOD has to give. Be HAPPY , Be LOVING and KIND to each other. Most of all have FUN! CONGRATULATIONS! WISHING YOU YEARS OF HAPPINESS!



Scott Sommer

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Dear Jess, I hope to see you someday soon and it will be a privilege and honor to meet your new hubby, Marvin. I believe Barbados to be an terrific location for your wedding. I would ask you to save me some cake, but I will be fine. I have known you and your family a long time and I appreciate each one of you, very very much. I look forward to appreciating your new hubby also. God's blessing for you Jess and Marvin. Love ya Jess!


Pauline Shepherd

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Hi Jess and Marvin,

I am packing and getting ready to leave for the trip to BARBADOS tomorrow. Sunday will soon be here. See you two shortly!

Love Mom

Trevor Russell

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Jessica and Marvin:

Hi Jessica this is your long lost Uncle Trevor.

Please accept my post post post congratulations on your upcoming wedding.

When I heard the news, I was lost for words, which as you know has never been a problem for me.

However, I will see you and Marvin shortly to celebrate your wedding.

May God continue to shower His blessings on both of you.

Abundant Love,

Uncle Trevor

Barbara Jackson

Sunday, November 18, 2012

Marvin and Jessica;

Yes, today is Sunday! Next Sunday, 6days, 13 hurs, 20 minutes, 4 seconds and counting.....down. Only two days before we travel, Stay Calm, Marvin. Jessica try to slow down and rest.

See you soon!

Love you Both


Pauline Shepherd

Sunday, November 18, 2012

Jess and Marvin,

Today is Sunday! Only one week till the BIG DAY! God bless you two abundantly!!!!!

Love Mom


Thursday, November 15, 2012


I'm so happy for you and so excited that I'll actually be at your wedding. If not for my best friend (you know who) I wouldn"t be able to attend.

Congratulations again and I'll see you real soon!

You stay calm, everything will be perfect!

Love you!

Lloyd Martin

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Hi Jess and Boogie,

Sorry I can't make the nuptials, but I know it will be an awesome wedding and even "awesomer" marriage. May God bless you both!


Jess, I need you email address!

Marvin Sr.

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

" A memory that will always be cherish"

Marvin sr.

Monday, November 12, 2012

Hey Yall,

I would love to get the both of you, as guess, on the radio show sometime in Mid-December. Enjoy each other every second of the day, and remember Heaven is here on earth, you just have to live connected to the Creator and his/her creation and the committment of marriage.

Pauline Shepherd

Sunday, November 11, 2012

Hi Jess and Marvin,

Today is Sunday and 2 Sundays from now you will be making the biggest promise and committment to each other. Once again, "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times. Always with the same person." You can both do this with God's help. NEVER LEAVE HIM OUT OF THIS COMMITTMENT!!!!!

Love Mom.

Dwayne and Sharon Roberson

Friday, November 9, 2012

My family and I would like to come and vist one day.

Dewayne Roberson

Friday, November 9, 2012

I wish you and your futrue wife the very best and, may god bless your union. Remember that you must agree upon togetherness cause you will be as one. Sometimes, very thing will not be as you want them to be but don't forget what brought you together. It takes some comprise on both your parts and you must be friends first. Understand what God has in store for ya'll and be the best you can be very day. That will leave to a long marriage and a very happy life.

Dewayne & Sharon Roberson family

Apostle Billy R. Woodard

Friday, November 9, 2012

Jess & Marvin......from the beginning of your lives until have grown,made mistakes,loved,and learned..a now you are about to experience destiny...presently you are two creations.....soon together you will become one you move through perfection life will offer all of its your perfection you are a force to reckon with..its you two against the world......Eternal Perfections.......

Apostle Billy & Lillian Woodard......................God Bless

Marvin Muhammad

Friday, November 9, 2012

As i begin to write, the song is playing by Prince " I WILL DIE FOR YOU". This has to be a passion for both of you to each other. It has to be like that for whatever reason. Oh yeah! to each of you, i too, will die for you.

Pauline Shepherd

Friday, November 9, 2012

Jess and Marvin,

Time is drawing closer and closer every day. Please get some rest here and there. You want to look fresh on the BIG DAY! You don't want to be wearing too much make-up!

Love Mom

Aunt Lil

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Well, well this is awsome. Jess is stepping into the next phase . With such a blessed family we know you will be a blessing to your husband Marvin and family. So sorry we can't celebrate the ceremony with you. We look forward to meeting with you both soon. Hope to celebrate with you in the US.

I can imagine Des 3 piece suite an ting!!

love always

Pauline Shepherd

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Hi Jess and Marvin,

I just sat here thinking about you two. I want you to know that God says He will never leave you (both of you) and He will never forsake you!!! That is powerful stuff. If you should ever need His help, and believe me you will! Just call out to Him and He definitely wiil hear and help!

Love Mom

Andrea Vitta

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Hi Jessica:

Just thinking about you and this huge step of faith you both are taking. Enjoy each other, I'll be praying for you and His blessings on your big day and future.

Love you

Andrea Vitta (ex-Holmes)

Melanie Lennear

Monday, November 5, 2012

Congratulations Jessica and Marvin!! Wow the websitse is so beautiful I enjoyed looking at every page and the music was perfect, it really spoke to who you both are as a couple. May your love always have the fire that you have today and forever more, and most important keep God at the center of it. So happy for you, enjoy your wedding and take a picture of each moment in your mind throughout that day and the memories will last a lifetime.


Melanie Lennear

Adeline Farley

Sunday, November 4, 2012

Hi Jessica:

I am happy for yoy and Marvin and know that you will have a great day and future togehter.

Unfortunatley i will not be able to attend your wedding in Barbados. A very beautiful island - that is where my late husband was from. He lived in St. Michael and I have visited the island 4 times.

Desmond Shepherd

Thursday, November 1, 2012

Well I thought November would never get here, but it's here and there are 25 days to go, for this great event of my daughter's wedding in Barbados. My suit is pressed and ready, I got my shoes and all the fixings to take part in this wonderful celebration. Of course I have prayed every day for you both ,Jessica and Marvin, and expect that God's presence and grace will be with you on the 25th, and also in the days and years to follow. Love you Jessica.


Barbara Jackson

Thursday, November 1, 2012

Oh My Goodness, it's November 1, I am having an anxiety attack. Of course, my wardrobe is still in process. I am counting down the 25 days until my precious frst born, Marvin L Jackson, Jr's WEDDING DAY EXTRAVAGANZA 2012. I will continue to pray daily each of you, Marvin and Jessica, to seek God's mercy and blessings in building a full, healthy, and enduring relationship. Marvin, I love and miss you.


Michelle "The Karaoke Queen" Russell

Saturday, October 27, 2012

Um...what can I say...Karaoke is going to be OFF the CHAIN!!! I am also not responsible for anything that may or may not take place during karaoke...just know that this is a serious competition...

Nuff Said


Marilyn Liggins

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Hey Ms. Jessica, just wanted to wish you and you future husband many years of happiness. May God bless your union abundantly. I am so proud of you Jess.

Wishing you all that life has to offer.

M. Liggins

Dr. Emile (Pastor E) and Sis. Lisa Hawkins

Sunday, October 21, 2012

Miz Jessica--excuse us--Dr. Shepherd... Congratulations! We are so happy for you & Marvin! You were always a special young lady to us--as the babysitter for our sons, EJ & Emmanuel. You told us back then, in the mid-90's, that your goal was to become a doctor. You stayed focused and met your goal. It's been a joy to watch you blossom into the woman you've become and yet to become as a married woman. Praying for God's blessings to continually rest upon you and Marvin! ~Love Eternally, Dr. E & Sis. Lisa

Taheerah ("T")

Saturday, October 13, 2012

So, it has taken me a minute to get to this, but here I am! Congrats to both of you. I love, Jess! I wish you love, happiness, and dare I say it, lots of babies. LOL! I can just see the look on your face.

Can't wait for Barbados!


P.S. When are we gonna get in some T Time?


Saturday, October 13, 2012

Congratulations Marvin and Jessica. May you be blessed with all things good. May your joys like the stars at night be to numerous to count. May your victories be more abundant than all the grains of sand on all the beaches on all the oceans in the world. May adversity only serve to make you stronger. And may beauty, order, and abundance be your constant companions. Welcome to Happily Ever After...

Janice Hobbs

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

Congratulations Jessica and Marvin! I'm so excited to see you both so happy. Have a truly amazing wedding day!


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Thursday, September 20, 2012


I am soo excited and can't tell you enough how happy I am for you. You have so much to be thankful for and now God has placed someone in your life for you to share it all with. I love you and wish you continued Blessings from God above. Stay rooted in Him. I love that you have Psalm 63 in your Bible tab. Psalm 63:5 is my favorite verse, and we even had it on our wedding invitations!

God Bless you, and much love to Marvin. He knows what a fabulous catch you are!!!



P.S. See you in Barbados!


Thursday, September 13, 2012


What a wonderful site! I love it. I am getting ideas ;)

I wish you two all the happiness you deserve!


Auntie Opie

Monday, September 10, 2012

Alicia (Auntie Sharon's daughter) and I, just visited again and it is all so overwhelming! Wishing you a long and happy marriage and I'm looking forward to seeing you on the 25th! Love and hugs to you both.


Saturday, September 8, 2012

OMG - what a fab site! I totally hope I can make it! ;-) I know it'll be unforgettable as the bride has impeccable taste! Congrats! Luv u bunches!!!


Friday, September 7, 2012

O-M-G!!! You guys are such a HOT Lil' couple!!! WOW-- Time makes a difference... (urrr--especially in your fashion)! LOL

Wishing you both years of honeymoon happiness!! Smile Chicca- you'll always be my #1 HU-BDB Jawn!!



(one of Jess' fabulous cousin's)


Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Girl! So happy for you! This is the best time ever! Enjoy it!

Aunty Babs

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Dear Jessica and Marvin,

I am wishing you all the best for your SPECIAL DAY and forever!

"There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage." (Martin Luther)

I know you and Marvin will have a good marriage.

Love Aunty Babs

Mrs. Espanola Evans Jackson

Monday, August 27, 2012

Congratulations from your grandmother. I am making plans to be with you and Jessica on your special day.

Barbara Jackson

Thursday, August 23, 2012


HAPPY BIRTHDAY. Today is the first day of the rest of your life. I pray for your continued success in Marriage and Life.

You have grown to be an exceptional, dependable and caring young man. Your past and future accomplishments are evidence of your talents. I pray that you and Jessica, trust in God for wisdom and guidance thoughout your Marriage.

We love you and are proud of you.

Mother/ Dad/Malcolm

Desmond Shepherd

Thursday, August 23, 2012


You have grown to be a wonderful person. My plan was to have you live at home forever, but that would never work with you. Your sense of adventure has enabled you to pursue great things and achieve great things in life. Your marriage to Marvin will be the next frontier, I know you will give it your best, because you always work hard at what you set your heart to do. I pray that you and Marvin will allow God to guide you along this new journey and I know you both will do well. I pray that you will love and be loved for as long as you both shall live. I love you and I am very proud of you. I bless you and Marvin with God's abundant grace.


Dr. Kim Boyd

Thursday, August 16, 2012


Your mom pointed me to your website, and as she stated, it is wonderful!

I wish you and your soon-to-be spouse the best.

God Bless,

K. Boyd

Sherry Jackson

Thursday, August 16, 2012

If you didn't want us at the wedding, you could have just said so! Really...Barbados... Really?!!

Well, okay, I'm over it. I wish you and Marvin the absolute best life has to offer. May you both continue to grow up, but not apart.

Love you Jess...this is it! You're doing it! AMAZING! I'm so proud of you.

All the best---the other Jacksons

Uncle Robin and Aunt Patty

Saturday, August 11, 2012

Jess and Marvin I finally made it to your website I mean wedsite. You really didnt have to twist my arm that much. We do plan to be at you and Marvin's wedding date. Congratulations and God bless. Now if i can turn off this music then I will be able to negotiate this site. Me gone

Byron and LaToya Johnson

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Jess and Marvin,

Since we are bikers, we opted for the platinum package. Your motorcycle will arrive just before the Chicago winter. You should have plenty of time to enjoy. We are so happy for you. Congratulations and best wishes!


Byron and LaToya

Malissa, Tanya and Sarita of Weddings by Malissa

Friday, July 20, 2012

Dear Jessica & Marvin,

What a beautiiful website. You have choosen an amazing island to celebrate your special day and we are honoured that you have choosen Weddings by Malissa to help you create your dream wedding. We look forward to not only meeting you but making all your dreams for your special day become a reality.

Best wishes,

Tanya, Malissa and Sarita

Douglas and Rob Cunningham

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Congratulations! Looking forward to the wedding.

Johnell and Robert

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Congratulations my beautiful, smart, fantastic friend! we are super happy for you! Amazing things happen to amazing people.

Can't wait to see you in Barbados!!!

Marvin big up!!!!!

Auntie Opal

Tuesday, July 17, 2012


Big Big Congratulations!

Jess, I'm so very happy for you both1 You

even look alike already! : -) Blessings to you

and I'm really hoping to be with you on that wonderful Day in November.

Love and Best Wishes

Kate Hauf

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Congratulations you two beautiful people, you! Couldn't be happier Jessica has found someone to KEEP HER IN LINE...or at least to try. There is no one like you Jess and I am so thrilled for you. Enjoy every second. All my love.

Jacque Antoine--Grenada

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Hi Jess & Marvin:

HUGE congratulations!! I am delighted to share in your upcoming marriage. Have a ball...I know you will.

Visited Mom and Dad the other day and I won't even attempt to tell you what your dear Mom was up to...she will...I just hope she accomplished it.

God bless you both so much on this rather special day! Be happy forever. J

Pauline Shepherd (Mommy)

Sunday, July 15, 2012

OK Jess and Marvin,

I opted for the Platinum Package from your registry. The airplane should be delivered next week! This should help with your commute. Hope you like it, and hope it's the right colour and size! Jess now you'll have to get your pilot's license.


Ann O.

Tuesday, July 10, 2012


Such a great engagement and love story and i'm sure the wedding will be as fab as the couple. I haven't met Marvin yet, but i know the fabulosity that Jessica is capable of :) Best Wishes for you both.


Chandra and Colin

Monday, July 9, 2012

What an elegant couple...what an elaborate website...what an electric vibe! We are so happy for you two! 2012 is defiinitely the best year to get married. Lol. We absolutely love all the details about the two of you, your parents, and your story. We pray nothing but the best for you, and if you ever need any "veteran newlywed" know whom to call ;-) CONGRATS!!!

Auntie Carole

Friday, July 6, 2012

Hi Jessica and Marvin,

I forgot to mention what a great idea, this wedsite is awesome and an original. How cool but then again is there anything that Jessica does that is not coool. Jessica girl you you to bits and hopefully one day you both will visit Toronto as I want to meet Marvin - Jessica's pick, a must meet :D

Love ya much,

Auntie Carole (Ray) (just in case you have more than one Auntie C)

Uncle Brad and Auntie Carole Ray

Friday, July 6, 2012

We are so happy for you both. Although we have not met you yet Marvin, am sure you are as fabulous as you look, besides Jessica would have no less. You both make such a handsome couple. Again we are excited for you and wish you both God's blessings as you become one.

Love you,

Uncle Brad and Auntie Carole


Tuesday, July 3, 2012

This is amazing, I'm very happy for your both - I hope nothing but the best for you both :-D It's wonderful to see you both enjoying the journey along the way.

Congratulations, God has blessed, and cheers to the beautiful new family


ps, I know I'm new, but let me know when the mercedes, vera wang & the 205" tv comes in ...

Andrea, Christopher & Daniella Holmes

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Dear Jessica,

We just heard the news about your engagement! The house was filled with so much excitement for you. We're so very happy for you and wish you congratulations and the many blessings of God to come over you and your marriage.

We love you and wish the both of you the very best.

-Christopher, Daniella & Andrea


Monday, July 2, 2012

This is so sweet. Thanks for including me in such a special occasion....I am excited for the both of you. CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Angela Edwards

Sunday, June 24, 2012

Dear Jess and Marvin,

What a beautiful way to announce your upcoming wedding! I am going back and laughing at the pictures, and enjoying all of the stories. Great idea!! I am really enjoying the playlist. Could you add a page with the titles?

It is hard to see you all grown up, and now getting married. I guess I have to face that you will always be my "baby" cousin. I look forward to being a part of your special day! (Can't wait to meet you Marvin. You HAVE to be special for Jessica to be getting Married!)

Jess and Marvin, remember to take time to GROUND your relationship and marrriage in God! I pray for His blessings on your life t ogether!

Congratulations to both of you, and God Bless.

Love to you both,


Marcus & Desiree Jordan

Friday, June 22, 2012

What can we say? What a journey! So very excited for both of you. We look forward to spending more time with you both. The kids are so ready to enjoy time with their new "Uncle Marvin"! Congratulations to you, God Bless you, and for the record I was the #1 guest on the website!!! I just wanted to give others a chance to voice their excitement...

Love you guys!

Sissy and Marc

Tisha Rainford

Friday, June 22, 2012

What an awesome idea Jess and Marvin!!

I loved the proposal story the best! And the pictures tell 1000 words. And the music! The Sade "By Your Side" was my wedding song. Great choice! I'm so happy for you both. It's about time!! I know the wedding will be breathtaking! Do I need to remind you to "Take lots of pictures?!?!"" not....

Luv ya,

Bosom buddy


Friday, June 22, 2012

Congratulations Jessica and Marvin

May God bles your union.

love always


Pauline Shepherd

Friday, June 22, 2012

Hey Jess,

I was just thinking! You could really wear my wedding dress. I could put a Vera Wang label in it. No one would know that it is only 44 years old. Oh! Maybe it would be a little too short, but we could always put a ruffle on the hem. Just saying!!! I tried OK. I'll give it to my granddaughter if and when she comes. Sydney is too tall already.

Love Mom

Byron and Gloria Russell

Thursday, June 21, 2012

Congratulations to you both. Jessica & Marvin!!

This was well worth the wait. Your Website is a beautiful Love Story.

May God Bless you both in this next chapter of your lives together.

Gail Turner

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Thanks for taking the time to put this together. It is wonderful. I really enjoyed getting to know Marvin and hearing about the proposal.

I send you guys much love and peace during this time of planning and for your life together. May God bless you abundantly!

Michelle C. Russell

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

I am forever more referring to Marvin as Jessica's Uncle's pen name:-) I also contend that your proposal story is unfounded and that Marvin indeed propsed at Chili's according to his original plan.

Seriously - I am so excited for you two to start this next chapter of your lives together. What a blessing that God has brought you together to demonstrate His love in a tangible way.

The not so serious - I cannot WAIT to get to Barbados in November. You two are becoming Chicagoans already...planning excursions away from the cold in the winter. LOVE IT:-)

Love to both my cousins!


Djenita Pasic

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

What a beautiful website, so much fun, and with great music! I loved reading all the details... Jessica kept all this pretty much under wraps until very recently. We are very happy for her and Marvin, the beautiful families and many good friends.

One question, though - what was Marvin doing in Belgrade???

Much love to all, Djenita

Jean Russell

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

We feel very honoured to be invited to your wedding and we are so looking forward to it.

Your website is amazing to say the least.

I hope that all your plans turn out just as you want them to be.

Love you.

Yvonne Baird

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

The website is beautiful. Great job putting it together.


Wishing you God's Blessings, Happiness, Peace and Eternal Love .

Pauline Shepherd (Mommy)

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Jess & Marvin,

You both did a wonderful job compiling this wedsite. The stories and pictures say so much about you two and your love for family and friends.

Remember, "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person"

I am so proud of both of you for taking this big step in life. God bless you two abundantly.

The clock is ticking away! ONLY 157 DAYS!!! as of today.

Michele Reisdorf

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Cant wait to celebrate with you both!!

Brandy Perry

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

You guys have me over here in tears! :) I'm so happy for you BOOGIE!

Xavier Bennett

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Congratulations Marvin and Jessica!


Thank you for leading by example and showing us (Malcolm & myself) that this is indeed still possible, great women do exist, and real love is iminent (regardless of what Pistol says) lol. You are truly a stand up guy, and I have and will always continue to look up to you as if you were my own big bro. Thank you Jessica for making him Mr. Jessica Shepherd, I'm sure it was a fairly difficult task but somebody had to get him right LOL!



Jamila Sanders

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

aww, this love story is so sweet! I am so happy for you and Marvin. Congratulations and many babies, I mean Blessings! (LOL)

Minda & Jamaul Green

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Well what can I say, Jess? Your love story is so beautiful! We are so happy for you and Marvin. We wish you all the blessings, love and happiness life has to offer. Can't wait to celebrate with you!

Azada Ibrahimova

Monday, June 18, 2012


I am so happy for you and your future husband. I saw your photos, it's so obvious that you are very happy together.

Be happy and together all the time!

I will not be able to come to your wedding, but I know that you will be the most beautiful bride ever!

Love you mommy:)


Darla Boodram-Roberts

Monday, June 18, 2012


Congratulations Jess. I am so happy for you and your future husband. Your story of meeting each other and reconnecting is so beautiful. I enjoyed reading all the wonderful stories you both posted in your album and the pictures are gorgeous. You two make a great couple and may GOD continue to Bless you both. Love you Jess


Monday, June 18, 2012

Congratulations Jess and Marvin!!! I am so happy for you! Nothing for the best for you on your new life together! XOXO

Cathy Morgan-Dume

Monday, June 18, 2012

Hey Sweetie...Its so nice to read of your wedding...I know you will have a fabulous time.

Marvin, you take care of mi ikkle sista...y ere...would love to have you both, here in Quebec...

Wish I could come to the wedding...i am due a Barbados vacation....hmmmmmm. Mom hopes to make it too.



Shelly Joiner

Monday, June 18, 2012

What a great story!! Congratulations and may you have a lifetime of happiness together. Derby next year as a married couple!!!

Deidre Hilliard and Jerome Byam

Monday, June 18, 2012

Congrats to you both! Your wedding website is so cute and candid and hilarious! I am looking forward to broadening our friendship now that we'll all be in Chicago. I hope that Jerome and I will be able to attend the nuptuals but in case we can't, just know that we wish you both all the love, beauty and blessings a marriage can bring!

Deidre and Jerome

Barbara A Jackson

Monday, June 18, 2012


I am so excited and happy for you and Jessica! I am really still trying to digest the thought......Marvin is getting married.

This wedsite is beautiful and the photos are worth a thousand words.

I am counting down the time with you all....

Your Mother

Sima Desai

Monday, June 18, 2012


I am so excited for you and Marvin!!! I love all the personal touches on this website!!

Nita Desai

Sunday, June 17, 2012


I couldn't be more happier for you both! You two seem like an amazing couple and I can't wait to share in your big day!

Much love!


Donna Shepehrd & Ike Umechuruba

Sunday, June 17, 2012

You're Welcome. Ike says congratulations & contact him for details about your summer home in Oklahoma.

Shan Biscette

Sunday, June 17, 2012

I knew he was the one for you- even when I didn't know the history between you two. I knew because there was something different about you! Something different, something vulnerable.

I'm really happy that you two kids FINALLY got a clue and made this official.

I'm happy to be a part of this phase of your lives. Can't wait for the wedding and all the times to follow.

Love always,

Chim Chum!

mitsy shepherd

Sunday, June 17, 2012

very nice, i am impressed


Sunday, June 17, 2012

This album a tear jerker....especially when Marvin said he knew he wanted to spend the rest of his life with you when you let him eat on the that's love! I'm so happy for the two of you! Can't wait for your special day!


Luisa xoxoxoxoxo

Jocelyne Young & Jaime Fletcher

Sunday, June 17, 2012

So happy for your both!! And what an excellent weekend to get married, I must say! Can't wait to share such an important day with you both. Thank you for sharing all the wonderful stories here. You're both beautiful and so are your families. I'm sure your marriage will follow in the incredible traditions of your parents. See you soon!

Love you!!

Jocelyne & Jaime

Ann and Alfy

Sunday, June 17, 2012

Hello Lady.....

Congratulations! I can't believe you are getting married!!! I wish you and Marvin all the best. Looking forward to celebrating with you on the big day. Alfy is looking forward to celebrating his birthday...I mean your wedding in Barbados too.

Sunday, June 3, 2012

Thanks everyone for your love and support as we get ready for this special day! We thank our parents for their continuous support as well as the friends who continue to be there for us. Please leave us comments so we can hear from you!

Rose SKinner

Saturday, May 19, 2012

Congratulations, I have never met you. I am like your Mom's little sister who lived across the road in May Pen Jamaica.I was a bridesmaid in your parents wedding. Sorry I missed their anniversary, I would have met you there. I wish for you both God's richest blessing on this union, may he guide and protect you both as you begin this new venture together. I wish you both long life and happiness.

Jessica you look as beautiful as your Mom.

God bless

Rose Lindo-Skinner


Our Wedding

Hotel and Accomodations

Barbados has so many wonderful hotels and villas to choose from. You should have no problems with finding something for yourself.

Below are the websites and information pertaining to different hotels and villas in the area where all the wedding events will take place.

With each listing is the price as well as the contact person to make the reservations.

1. Divi Southwinds Beach Resort

Located on Dover Beach on the Casual South Coast of Barbados

The Divi Southwinds Beach Resort is located on the casual south coast of Barbados on Dover Beach along the St Lawrence Gap, a lively area known for dining, nightlife, and open-air shopping. Dover Beach is noted for beautiful wide, sandy beaches with easy currents perfect for families. The unique situation of "the Gap" - a cobbled street running neatly thru the resort, allows guests easy access to some of the island's best dining.

The Divi Southwinds is approximately 4 miles from the capital city of Bridgetown, and 6 miles from the airport.

Beach Villas

The Beach Villas at Divi Southwinds are one bedroom suites located on

a half mile of white sand beach. Each one bedroom suite offers one king-sized bed with a queen sleeper sofa in the separate living area.

Suite amenities include a fully equipped kitchen, television with vcr, air-conditioning, and in-room safe. The beach villas offer private patios or

balconies with full ocean views.

(Maximum occupancy 4 guests)

One Bedroom Suite- Pool or Garden View

One bedroom suites feature one king-sized bed in the bedroom, with a queen sleeper sofa in the separate living area. Suite amenities include

a fully equipped kitchen, television, air-conditioning, clock radio, and in-room safe. One bedroom suites are a short walk from the beach just behind the St. Lawrence Gap, and offer spacious private balconies or patios with pool or garden views.

(Maximum occupancy 4 guests)

Two Bedroom Suite

Two bedroom suites feature one king-sized bed, two twin beds, and a queen sleeper sofa in the separate living area. Two bedroom suites offer one full bath and one half bath. Suite amenities include a fully equipped kitchen, television, air-conditioning, and in-room safe. Two bedroom suites are located a short walk from the beach behind the St. Lawrence Gap, and offer private patios or balconies with pool or garden views.

(Maximum occupancy 6 guests)


Room Rates: RoomOnly

Rate 1 (One bedroom): king bed in bedroom queen sofa in living room & kitchen

$110.00 + 18.75% taxes + $5.00per night energy sur-charge = $135.63 per night, single or double occupancy

Rate 2 (Two bedroom): king bed in one bedroom, 2 twin in the 2nd bedrooms, queen sofa in living room & kitchen $199.00 + 18/75% taxes + $5.00per night energy sur-charge =$241.31 per night, up to 4 adults

Two bedrooms are limited.

Children 12 & younger stay in the room free

Extra Person: $25.00 per person per night, inclusive of taxes. For additional guest 13 & older in the rooms.

Signed agreement must be received by 07/07/12 for rates to remain valid.

Online link: to book reservations at your convenience 24/7

How to book into a group block online:

1.Go to

2.Go to bottom lefthand corner “Find Your Vacation”

3.Enter arrival date

4.Go to ‘Groups’ tab at top of the Reservation page.

5.Enter Attendee code (code) exactly as provided.

6.Go to step 1, enter dates again (rates will appear at this point.)

7.Now you can select your room type & book.

Or your guests can call the Reservations Department Monday – Friday 8am-5pm EST at 1800 367 3484 prompt # 1.

All rates are in U.S. dollars. Taxes and service charges are as noted in the above rates and will apply. Taxes, service charges and other governmental fees and charges are subject to change without notice.

Rates are non-commissionable. Rates above are based on single and double occupancy in a one bedroom & up to 4 adults in the two bedroom suite. Additional adults are required to pay the Extra Person rate. Children up to 12 years may stay free when sharing a room with at least one paying adult. Children over the age of 12 will be charged the Extra Person rate.

The rates in this agreement are based solely on availability and are valid until 30 days prior to the above mentioned Arrival Date. As of October 21, 2012, guests may still make reservations based on availability, but will be at the resort’s Best Available Rate.

Rate may be extended up to 5 days prior to arrival, or post departure based on availability at the sole discretion of the resort.

Payment Terms

Full payment is required at the time of reservation.

Rights of Cancellation and Cancellation Fees

Cancellations must be received at least 7 days prior to arrival for full refund. Guests canceling within 7 days of arrival will be subject to a cancellation penalty in the amount equal to one night’s stay inclusive of taxes and service charges.


RoseAnne Jenghis

In-House Sales Manager | DIVI RESORTS

6320 Quadrangle Drive, Suite 210

Chapel Hill, NC 27517

800-367-3484 ext 2077 | 919-419-2077

Fax 919-419-2076

2. VILLAS OF DISTINCTION Maxwell Beach Villas

Maxwell Beach Villas is located on the beautiful South Coast of Barbados, between St. Lawrence Gap and the town of Oistins. 102 is a ground floor unit with stunning views of the Caribbean Sea and easy access to the pool and beach.

From your residence you can wake up to the sound of the waves every morning in this open plan 2 bedroom, 2 bathroom luxury condominium, which is fully air conditioned and has ceiling fans throughout.

Many amenities are nearby; Oistins has grocery stores, a bank, convenience stores, and fast food outlets just to name a few. A large array of dining options are available within a 5-10 minute drive from your villa; you will find casual beach restaurants, trendy sports bars, and fine restaurants on the island.

Butterfly Beach Hotel next door has a wonderful casual restaurant and bar “The Happy Star Fish” that serves breakfast, lunch, and dinner every day of the year.

Relax on its patio and dining area or get a tan by the pool, take a leisurely stroll along the beach or swim in the turquoise Caribbean Sea, your luxury vacation at Maxwell Beach Villas is just a step away.


A/C Throughout

Ceiling Fans

Fully Equip Kitchen

Communal pool

Beach Front

Flat Screen TV

Cable TV / DVD

Electronic Safe

Laundry Room with Washer, Dryer and Sink


Secure Underground Parking

Elevator access to all floors

24 hr On-Site Security

Bathroom Details

2 en-suite

Master - Double Vanity, Tub and Shower

Bathroom 2 – Shower

Bedroom Details

Master Bedroom - King Size Bed

Bedroom 2 - two Twin beds

Villa Notes

This is a non-smoking villa.

Barbados Villa Notes

Most Barbados rental villas come with a full staff, consisting of cook, maid, and laundress. A private cook will prepare breakfast, lunch, and dinner – meals that you choose based on your own personal tastes. Please inquire about staffing at your villa at the time of booking.


MBV 102 – 2 bed @ US$300 per night NO VAT (taxes)

MBV 203 – 2 bed @ US$300 per night NO VAT

MBV 302 – 2 bed @ US$300 per night NO VAT

MBV 402 – 2 bed @ US$300 per night NO VAT

MBV 403 – 2 bed @ US$300 per night NO VAT

MBV 501 – 2 bed @ US$300 per night NO VAT

MBV 502 – 2 bed @ US$300 per night NO VAT

Sandy Hook 21 – 2 bed @ US$275 per night plus VAT or 3 bed @ US$375 per night plus VAT

Sapphire Beach 505 – 2 bed @ US$375 per night plus VAT or 3 bed @ US$400 per night plus VAT


Must ask for Shepherd/Jackson wedding and ask for

Kim Palmer as the contact.

Senior Villa Specialist

Villas of Distinction: 800-289-0900 x44242

Fax: 407-551-1775



Situated on the pristine coastline of Barbados, Savannah Beach Hotel is a four-star beach resort that easily ranks as one of the most idyllic destinations on the island. It is a Caribbean paradise that simply must be experienced! Forget everything you’ve ever known or experienced about all-inclusive hotels… Savannah is distinctly different. It is an all-inclusive hotel with style! Dive in… Savannah is an excellent choice for a relaxed Caribbean holiday.

Savannah has just shy of 100 beautifully appointed rooms, all of which are fully air-conditioned and feature supremely comfortable beds and seating areas. The rooms also feature large TV’s, DVD player (movies are available to rent), iPod docking station, mini bar, hair dryer, tea & coffee making facilities, ironing board & iron, security safe, and free internet access. Specific room furnishings may vary by room category. All of the bathrooms have a modern, minimalist finish with multi-jet showers.

Free Wi-Fi is also available in specific parts of the hotel.

Please note that extra beds are available and must be pre-booked.

At Savannah, we take your culinary experience very seriously. We offer menus with tremendous variety and flavor from around the world — including traditional Caribbean specialties.

Our team takes pride in the quality of your dining experience. Our menus frequently change with seasonality and the creative inspiration of our chefs. Sample menus can be found in the restaurant pages on this site.

Please note that in addition to our house wines, we offer a specialty wine and champagne menu for those who are celebrating or are simply looking for something special. If we don’t stock the brand you want, we’ll source it for a small up-charge.

We welcome residents of Barbados and visitors to the island to dine with us for lunch and or dinner. Come savour the flavours and allow us to tempt you to come back time and again!

Savannah Beach is a beautiful resort offering some of the most luxurious accommodation on the south coast. You are just steps from the beach, ensuring a blissful holiday in the Caribbean sun. Spoilt for choice, there are 2 swimming pools, 1 that meanders through the garden courtyard and has a 4-storey waterfall, the other is located down by the beach. When it comes to family holidays, children and teens are extremely well catered for at this hotel, there is an extensive family entertainment centre (opening Easter ’12) to keep even the most energetic children entertained! For those romantic moments, why not go down to the beach for a moonlight romantic stroll before heading to the late night bar.

Live entertainment 5 nights per week, including themed nights and floor shows. Weekly manager’s cocktail party. Jazz Brunch on a Sunday.

Fun and games — 2 Swimming pools, full service spa, salon, beach volleyball and non-motorised water sports available. Excellent family entertainment centre (opening Easter ’12) featuring a supervised kids’ club for children aged 4-12 years (parents must stay on property) open 5 days a week from 2.00pm – 8.30pm (will open in the mornings on rainy days). There is also a teenage hangout den featuring the latest in interactive social gaming technology. The general family room has a pool table, table football, darts and table tennis.

Handy stuff – Gift Shop, departure day shower facilities, guest laundry, daily shuttle to St Lawrence Gap from 7pm – 11.30pm





To make a reservation, please contact the front desk

at (246) 432-6595

4. Sea Breeze Beach Hotel (all inclusive):

The new Sea Breeze is a Four Star, beachfront, all-inclusive resort with what many of our guests say is the best view on the South Coast of Barbados.

Nestled on a secluded corner of the south coast of Barbados, Sea Breeze is fortunate to have access to two beaches as well as a spectacular view of Oistins Bay.

Recently renovated, Sea Breeze is a 4 star, all-inclusive resort that offers guests superior accommodations, amenities and dining options while maintaining the friendly and relaxed charm of Barbados.

With 2 beaches with excellent swimming conditions, 3 restaurants to choose from, 2 swimming pools to lounge by (one adults only), 3 Jacuzzis to soak up the bubbles, sun and fun, water sports, kid’s club, a well equipped gym and spa, what more could you ask for in a vacation!

Come experience Barbados and enjoy the best of the caribbean. We gaurantee your satisfaction with our accommodatons...

RATES: Please note these rates are offered based on booking 10 or more rooms on a 5 nights minimum stay. If you would like to stay here, contact me so that I can ensure that there are 10 rooms booked so the rate below will apply.

My email address is

USD$327.50 Pool/garden view room

USD$331.50 Ocean View room

USD$352.75 Deluxe Ocean Front room

Please note when booking a three nights deposit is required on each room, and balance can be paid on arrival at hotel. We do accept all major credit cards for payment.

5. Hilton Barbados

Needham's Point St Michael

Bridgetown, NA, BB 11000



Stay at the luxury Hilton Barbados Resort, which enjoys a stunning location on the lush tropical peninsula of Needham's Point and great weather year-round due to it's ideal location in the West Indies of the Caribbean. Perfect for couples, families and discerning business travelers, this 100% non-smoking Caribbean resort is a true tropical paradise, with exquisite ocean-facing accommodation and four fabulous Barbados dining outlets.

Just five minutes from the island’s capital, Bridgetown, and 20 minutes from Grantley Adams International Airport, this luxurious ocean-front hotel features a sprawling pool complex with whirlpool, as well as three premium tennis courts and a Fitness & Health Centre with spa treatment rooms overlooking Carlisle Bay.

Children will get star treatment at the fun-filled Kidz Paradise Club, while the surrounding area offers a multitude of cultural and recreational activities for all the family, including water sports, world-class golf, horseback riding, fishing, sailing, scuba diving, and sightseeing at the historic Charles Fort, a fascinating 17th century colonial fortification.




Room rates are quoted in US$ and exclusive of VAT 8.75% and 10% Service Charge.

Please Note: The room block and rate offer is valid until August 10th 2012.

Quoted rates will be offered, based on availability to your attendee 3 days before and 3 days after the above dates.

Check In Time is 3:00 PM; Check Out Time is 12 NOON.


Roundtrip Porterage fee of US $10.00 per bag plus 17.5% will be applied to the Master Account in case of group arrival.

Hotel will provide the following additional concessions:

· 3 days pre/post group rates

· Welcome drink of hotel choice upon arrival

- Guarantee upgrade to Ocean View

- Complimentary access to Gym between 6:30am & 10:30am

- 25% Discount off Spa treatments in our Ocean View Treatment Room


RATES: Please note these rates are offered based on booking 10 or more rooms on a 5 nights minimum stay. If you would like to stay here, contact me so that I can ensure that there are 10 rooms booked so the rate below will apply.

My email address is

Our Wedding

For Travelers

Shepherd/Jackson Wedding


is a sovereign island country in the Lesser Antilles. It is about 168 kilometres (104 mi) east of the islands of Saint Vincent and the Grenadines, and 400 kilometres (250 mi) north-east of Trinidad and Tobago. Barbados is outside of the principal Atlantic hurricane belt.

Barbados was initially visited by the Spanish around the late 1400s to early 1500s and first appears on a Spanish map from 1511. In 1627 the first permanent settlers arrived from England and it became an English and later British colony.

Barbados has an estimated population of 284,000 people, with around 80,000 living in or around Bridgetown, the largest city and the country's capital

Barbados is the most British island in the Caribbean, known for its beaches and cricket - its national sport - the former British colony has a dual heritage: English - evident in its stone-built Anglican churches and Saturday race meetings - and African, reflected in its music and dance.

Afternoon tea is a ritual, cricket is the national pastime (a passion, most admit), dressing for dinner is a firmly entrenched tradition, and bar patrons are as likely to order a Pimm's Cup as a rum and Coke. And yet, Barbados is hardly stuffy—this is still the Caribbean, after all. Instead, it's a sophisticated tropical island with a rich history, lodgings to suit every taste and pocketbook, and plenty to pique your interest by day and night, from broad, sandy beaches to fine restaurants enveloped by lush gardens and tropical foliage.

•Full name: Barbados

•Population: 274,000 (UN, 2011)

•Capital: Bridgetown

•Area: 430 sq km (166 sq miles)

•Major language: English (Bajan, an English-African dialect, is widely used)

•Major religion: Christianity

•Monetary unit: 1 Barbadian dollar = 100 cents

•Main exports: Sugar and molasses, rum, other foods and beverages, chemicals, electrical components, clothing

Barbadians - more often known as Bajans

Our Wedding


From what beach did Marvin email Jessica to start this love all over again?

Where did Marvin and Jessica get engaged?

Where was Marvin and Jessica's first date?

What were Marvin and Jessica's majors in college

Who is Marvin Michaels?

Our Wedding


Macy's Wedding Gift Registry

If you're wondering............... We love Nambe, Vera Wang, Kate Spade and Hotel Collection.

TYPE in either

Marvin Jackson or

Jessica Shepherd


TYPE in either

Marvin Jackson or

Jessica Shepherd

Platinum Package Wedding Gifts

They say you should shoot for the stars and if you fall short, take it back and get your money.

Gold Package Wedding Gifts

I thought about the cost of the platinum package gifts and felt ashamed that I did not think about those with less disposable income than the platinum gifts allows, so I give you the gold.

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Wedding Party

Desiree "C" Jordan (Shepherd)

Matron of Honour

The matron of honour is the OLDER (just so it's clear) sister of the bride. Desiree has been an integral part of Jessica's life and although the best sister one could have. As the "go to" sister in elementary school that could beat my enemies up to the sweet thoughtful sister that has helped me through the worst of times, she is a great sissy! She is married to Marcus Jordan (OU alum- Go SOONERS!) and they have two gorgeous children, Sydney and Jeffrey. They live in Tulsa, Oklahoma and are very excited to be part of our special day.

Michele Reisdorf


Michele Reisdorf aka "Dada" has been friends with the bride since their senior year of high school in Jenks, OK. They have been inseparable since. She drove me home from school everyday (or I would be stuck taking the school bus!!), taught me how to drive stick shift and got me and Ann (the other bridesmaid) into our first fight...........over a Snoop Doggy Dog CD. Oh the days.......... They attended ORU together and she lived with me at home for 2 years. She woke me up for all my classes, took my notes and exams.........JUST JOKING. We also had the chance to work together at the Marriott while in college and now she is the General Manager of several properties in Sarasota!

We had a blast through all these memories and still have a blast when we get the chance to hang out. Michele is a quiet, strong spirit that is so sincere and she always goes above and beyond for her friends. I can always count on her for a shoulder to cry on and for a listening ear.

She is married to Dan Reisdorf and they live in Sarasota, FL with their sons Matthew and Joshua.



Ann................where do I begin? Oh boy. She is the friend of a lifetime it seems. She never seems to go away............ But I wouldn't have it other way. Ann befriended the bride WWWWAAAYY back in high school when she wanted to talk to me but wasn't allowed because of her friends..... but she did anyway. Since that day she has not stopped talking to me and calls me about 17 times a week. Literally.

Ann and I have gone through high school, college, med school and grad school together and as much as we annoy each other we can't get enough of each other! She is my ace and will be the friend that will tell me the truth..........even if I think my outfit is cute and she doesn't.

Ann is determined, SAFE (aka Safety Suzy) and always provides the best ear to hear my problems and concerns. She is currently residing in Towson, MD completing her fellowship in Retina as a subspecialist of Opthamology. She continues to strive for the best and constantly provides me with more motivation!

Sydney Jordan

Junior Bridesmaid

Sydney Renee Jordan is the beautiful, wonderful, "mini-me" niece of the bride. She plays a big part in the brides life as a thriving, smart 12 year old. She is an avid soccer player and also attended an exclusive Chinese immersion school program over the last 2 years.

She has cosigned on my marriage to "Uncle Marvin" and would like me to get "married already" as she put it...........

She adores her younger brother Jeffrey and also enjoys reading.

Malcolm Jackson

Best Man

Malcolm Jackson aka Michaelangelo aka Pistol aka Whip aka Cry-Baby aka Captain Jackson, brother to the groom, will serve as my Groomsman. I have known Malcolm for 30 years and some days. At first sight I thought, "Ahhhh....Not much here": poop slober and the crying; I was good. Then as the years moved along and the growth an acceptance set-in Malcolm grew in to the man he is today, the man as my brother I love almost as much as Jessica. He grew into the Best Man.

Anthony Netty-Marble


Yo! This is my dude. Anthony and I go back to freshman year in college at the University of Oklahoma. I had a 3.8 GPA and I was close to the 4.0 but Anthony had the .2 I needed. We were roommates, yard homies and crows. Anthony's family took me in over long holiday weekends when I did not feel like nor could afford I-35 South into Dallas. Now-a-days 'Tony' is an accomplished Dentist, father and husband.

I will be proud to have Tony stand as my Groomsman. We will be cleaner that first Stompdown in Norman when we had the new crosstrainers, Girbeau Jeans and Tommy shirts.

Kevin Brewer


Kevin is a native of Chicago Il. Marvin and Kev first met under the brotherhood of Alpha Phi Alpha in Austin, Texas as Kevin, leaning heavily on the shield, asked Marvin and fellow Alpha Jeff Reid if he could sleep on the floor of their Hotel room during exas Relays. Well, Kevin along with several other item from that weekend Marvin has not been able to get rid off to this date. Kevin has shared the comedy stages in Dallas and travelled the world with Marvin. Ken in currently and IT developer in the Chicago area and we are looking forward to his wedding date.

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Mount Gay Rum Distillery

Friday, November 23, 2012 - 12:00 pm

St. Lucy parish

Here is another amazing reason we are having the wedding in Barbados!! RUM!

Just joking, however Mount Gay Rum is a exceptional rum that is a national treasure of Barbados. If you are looking for fun things to do, pass by the distillery for a tour and tasting.

It was recently featured in a magazine as RUM RUMINATIONS!

Rum has been produced in Barbados for over 350 years and Barbados rum is recognised as one of the finest in the world today.

The Mount Gay Rum Distillery visitor's centre on Spring Garden Highway is a short taxi ride through Bridgetown. Built like a typically Bajan house, the visitors centre is in front of the rum warehouse and bottling facility.

About Rum

Rum is a distilled beverage made from sugarcane by-products such as molasses and sugarcane juice by a process of fermentation and distillation. The distillate, a clear liquid, is then usually aged in oak and other barrels.

The first distillation of rum took place on the sugarcane plantations of the Caribbean in the 17th century.

Night out on the Town!

Friday, November 23, 2012 - 7:00 pm

Oistens Fish Fry

Barbados: Oistins Fish Fry

It is a totally Bajan experience and a must during your stay on the island.

Oistins is an active fishing town on the south coast and is a hub of activity on weekend nights.

On Friday night particularly, the big thing to do is go to the fish fry in Oistins. The food is the main draw - excellent fish, (tuna, swordfish, marlin, mahy-mahy, flying fish), lobster, chicken etc served in an extremely informal setting. You can get your fish grilled or fried depending on which vendor you choose from. It’s all cooked on the spot in front of you.

A plate of fish (and there’s plenty fish on it) and a beer will cost you about Bds$30.00.

But there are also art and craft items on sale, including jewellery, pottery, ceramics, leather craft, wood carvings, straw craft, clothing and accessories, and original paintings and prints.

There are two sources of music – one plays mostly back-in-time (Bob Marley, Platters, Jimmy Cliff, Jamaican ska, even old country and western!), the other calypso, including the current Crop Over hits. You can dance if you want or watch the others dance! Some nights there’s a live band.

Food is usually available from about 7:00 pm but if you go early (say 5:45 pm) you can walk on the pier and perhaps see a great sunset. Collect your fish scraps from the vendors in the fish market and feed the turtles.

Frequented by visitors and locals alike, it's a great place to spend an informal evening. Lots of parents bring their children.

Dress down!

KARAOKE!! The 80's!!

Friday, November 23, 2012 - 10:00 pm

Braddies Bar
Bath Village, Dover, Christ Church, Barbados

AS some of you may know.............and others may not know.

I am a fan of karaoke.

Nothing more to it however when I first moved to Chicago, I realized that my dear sweet cousin Michelle also loved karaoke............. so we became the karaoke crazies.........

And now we want you to join in! Michelle is the OFFICIAL HOST of the Marvin & Jessica Wedding Karaoke Klash!!

It will be in the genre of Jessica's chosen theme........ THE 80's!!

And there will be lots of music, critiques and just pure chaotic fun.

SO feel free to join us on Friday night after the Fish Fry for a good time at Karaoke!

See you there!

Dinner at Tapas

Saturday, November 24, 2012 - 9:00 pm

Bridgetown, Barbados
Hastings Main RoadHighway 7Christ ChurchBarbados WI+1 (246) 228-0704

Wedding Ceremony

Sunday, November 25, 2012 - 3:30 pm

The wedding ceremony will be at 3:30PM in Waterford,

St. Michael, Barbados W.I.

Wedding Reception

Sunday, November 25, 2012 - 6:00 pm

Waterford, St. Michael
Barbados W.I.

About Us

The Grooms Parents

Marvin Muhammad & Barbara Jackson

The Groom's Parents

Where do I start?

My story: Marvin Sr. of Beaumont, Texas, found Barbara Perry in Amarillo,Texas. If I remember the accounts correctly........ she chased him down at a Juneteenth parade along Amarillo Blvd. Her task was not easy so she employed the help of her four sisters and three brothers to devise a plan of attack. Although their plan was successful, Marvin Sr. had his defenses up with his five brothers and one sister. Some 37 years later they are still wed and reside in the North Texas area.

Barbara is a degreed accountant and is currently a consultant in the financial industry. Ms. Barbara is also an entrepreneur with a designer handbag/accessory boutique. She has been active since chilhood in the Baptist Church, enjoys traveling, family, entertaining and LMN.

Marvin Sr., Muhammad, is currently employed with Lockheed Martin, hosts a radio talk show for KFOI Movement on and is an avid golfer.

The Jackson/Muhammad union produced three seeds; Marvin Jr. (me), Reggie (no-longer with us due to complications during birth) and Malcolm (the baby of the bunch). They poured their hearts into the raising of their sons. They allowed us to be us which resulted in Marvin Jr: being published by the Library of Congress, achieving academic/scholarship success at the University of Oklahoma, becoming a network writer and traveling the world. Additionally, their love and support allowed Malcolm: to serve Military tours in Qatar, South Africa and Saudi Arabia; he also achieved collegiate success from Stephen F. Austin University.

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The Brides Parents

Desmond and Pauline Shepherd

The Brides Parents

The wonderful parents of the bride hail from the island of Jamaica.........Green, Black and Gold. Married in 1969, they celebrate their 43rd wedding anniversary this year. They moved to Toronto, Canada in 1970 and lived there for 22 years before moving to Tulsa, Oklahoma. Desmond is a licenced professional counselour and Pauline is an elementary school teacher. They are loving parents and created a wonderful home for their 2 daughters. Desmond likes to read in his spare time and also likes movies! Pauline likes to travel and enjoys entertaining. They both go to India for missions and founded Operation Good News for Missions Outreach.

They are very excited about their younger daughter getting married.............FINALLY.

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As per Jessica:

"I had planned a girls trip to Argentina from November of 2011 and one by one, all of my girlfriends bailed from the trip! So I sheepishly asked Marvin if he would come and surprisingly he said he would find out if he could get the time off and a few days later, he said he would be able to come!

So we left for the trip, and if anyone has travelled with me they know I am the

1. Trip coordinator

2. Trip nazi

3. Trip person you get an agenda from every day..........printed in hard copy!

And we had a full 3 days of the trip complete when on the Friday we went to the Tango show and dinner.

We got to the show and had dinner and right before the lights went down they announced "DO NOT TAKE PICTURES DURING THE SHOW!!" However, as always, I thought I could get away with taking pictures. And totally got busted and we got in trouble ! So they asked us for our names and then I was sure we were going to be kicked out.

Then the gentleman on stage said that there were special occasions for the evening and they called our names............I was still clueless. I thought we were going to get in trouble for the picture taking. Then they sang Happy Birthday to another table and then the lights went down.................

He sang a beautiful song in Spanish however I didn't know what he was saying.

So at the end of the song...........I was clapping and then Marvin turned to me and said, "he called our names out and sang that song for us because I wanted to ask you to spend the rest of your life with me............... and I wanted to propose and.............."

I didn't hear anything else after that. I saw the ring in the box on the table and I had my hands to my face for ummmmmmmm about 30 minutes it felt like. I had sweaty armpits, I cried (the ugly cry BTW) and I couldn't believe it! I said yes and then had a silly smile on my face for the rest of the show.

After the show we went back to the hotel and had a toast at the bar and I called my sister, Shan and Ann. It was an amazing experience and I couldn't have asked for anything better. He totally surprised me and it was perfect timing!

As per Marvin (the Truth):

I had a really nice ring in my bag and I needed a reason to wear my good suit so why not propose.

When did I know I wanted to propose?

Well, I have known and loved Jessica for a number of years but due to my youth and the living I had to do, I was without her. As we re-united and began building on our foundation I realized I could not let her go again no matter how much she messed-up. What really sealed the deal, LADIES LISTEN: One-day while Jessica was visiting me in Dallas she was taking care of some Gynecological Business, using big words and on the phone with Dr. so and so and Dr. whats his face. She stopped to ask me if I was hungry, which I replied, "Yes". Then she stopped what she was doing, cooked an awesome meal, (Jamaican goat/beef/fish-ham with sides) let me eat next to her in front of the tv then cleaned-up after me. I knew then I could not let her go. She is smart, high-energy, well spoken, loves hard, passionate, my friend, beautiful (after 9:30am), involved, type-a personality (I need that for balance), God fearing, she can cook (while doing all the above) and she let me eat on the couch.

About Us

Our Story

Marvin's verison:

Jessica was on a date with Gerald Lee celebrating Tim Perry's birthday. I was invited along as a friend of both Tim and Gerald. I met Jessica and thought, "cute but a little too queen bee for me". Gerald excuses himself to go to the restroom and Jessica made a pass at me. Me being the college playa/stud I scooped game and returned the flirt in kind. The rest is a 13 year love story that will not be broken.

Jessica's version:

I knew Marvin through other friends but never really talked to him or spent time with him. But when we went out for Tim's birthday............ it was NOT a date between me and Gerald Lee.......... I spoke a little bit with Marvin but not super impressed. Later that semester we went on a date and then by the time we were graduating we decided to start dating. It was short but definitely memorable. We had a great connection and had fun together. Throughout the last 13 years, we kept in touch here and there. Birthdays and New Years........... missed a few years. But then he went to Austrailia for New Years 2010/2011 and contacted me after. We texted for about a month and then we called each other and then we visited each other..............the rest is history. We still had that ole skool love, connection and friendship. 13 years was long to wait..............but when it's the one you're supposed to be with, it's no time at all.

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The Groom

Marvin Leroy Jackson Jr. aka Boogie aka Marvin Michaels aka Mr Jessica Shepherd (if you know her then you will agree). I know this page is about me, but words won't do justice. I am an artist, writer, reader, dreamer, realist, Alpha, Christian, teacher, motivator, supporter, etc. I am only all of this based on the foundation that Barbara Jackson and Marvin Muhammad built. Jessica has completed this build out by adding the walls. I was always getting back to her until I got back.

I started in Amarillo, Texas then Beaumont, Dallas, Norman, Oklahoma City, Durham, NC, New York City, Los Angeles, CA, Sydney, Belgrade, Shanghi.

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The Bride

The bride extraordinaire is a determined, very opinionated woman who takes life to the fullest. She was brought up by the best West Indian parents around...................... Education was not an option, you didn't leave the table until your food was finished and goat meat and rice and peas was a normal dinner meal. She learned how to attain the most in life but also was reminded of where she came from. She is of Jamaican heritage (although her parents argue that notion) and loves every bit of Canadian culture.

She moved to the US at the age of 12 (only 15 years ago........) and finished high school in Tulsa before finally finishing at the University of Oklahoma where she met the dashing MARVIN JACKSON!

Since then she has finished medical school, fellowship in GYN surgery and an MBA. Now living in Chicago, she is the Director of Minimally Invasive Surgery at the University of Illinois at Chicago and loving every moment of it.

She has experienced the best of times with Marvin and can't wait to experience more. The memories from 1999 up until now are so rich even though we went our separate ways for some time. We each pursued our passions separately and as fate would have it, we have now come full circle since 2011. She is excited to spend a special day with family and friends and the rest of her life with MJ.

Life is full of ups and downs but being able to share it with the best of friends and family makes life worth every moment.


Wedding Plans

Dr. Emile Hawkins

“A Shepherd Wedding Tradition!”


Being able to officiate the weddings of both their daughters…what an honor! Lisa and I met the Shepherds back in 1992 (Wow--20 years ago!) on the campus of Oral Roberts University in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Our family, like the Shepherds, had just moved into “Grad Housing.” Our family relocated from Miami, FL, to Oklahoma in July 1992. I attended ORU as a master’s student; Lisa worked in ORU’s Word Processing Center; and our sons Emile, Jr. (EJ) and Emmanuel were in elementary school in the Jenks School District. I was introduced to Brother Desmond Shepherd by colleagues who spoke highly of him and felt our paths should cross. Also a graduate student, Desmond frequented the Word Processing Center at ORU where Lisa typed many of his papers. We learned that his wife, Pauline, was also a student at ORU, and they had two lovely teenage daughters—Desiree and Jessica.

Our sons weren’t babies, but we needed someone to watch over them after school and Jessica agreed to become their babysitter. Jessica did an outstanding job keeping our boys “in-line” and having fun at the same time. In 1995, I became the senior pastor of Liberty World Outreach Church in Tulsa, OK. Eventually, the Shepherd family joined our fellowship. I was honored to ordain Pastor Desmond Shepherd as Associate Pastor and to help support his missions ministry—Operation Good News International. I traveled with him and his team to India in 2000 and my life has not been the same since! We’ve watched Jessica grow up to become “Dr. J,” fulfilling both her dreams and those of her family!

We are excited about the “next level” of her life becoming the wife of Marvin Jackson!

Shepherd/Jackson wedding

Barbados West Indies

Barbados! Why did they pick Barbados? Other than the fact it is a beautiful island, we will be surrounded by beautiful people and it will be the one day infront of GOD, Family and Friends we commit to one another an unconditional, "I DO"; there really is no other reason we picked Barbados.


News & Updates

How to Chill while in Barbados!

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Perched on a hill across the street from beach is the perfect place to stop to refuel on rum punches, Bajan staples and “old talk” while exploring Barbados.

Barbados rum shacks, are counterintuitively painted in Banks Beer’s bright red, white and black. So, it’s pretty hard to miss......but it manages to entice more than a few tourists away from snapping photos of the rock with a promise of laid-back good times soaked in local libations.

On the wall to the left of the entrance there’s a small photographic gallery of the bar’s history worthy of anyone looking to learn a little more about Barbados’ rich past. e

The menu, scrawled only somewhat legibly on a small green chalkboard leaned against a wall in the back, changes based on availability, but you can bet that whatever’s on offer will be authentically Bajan. Fried flying fish, macaroni pie, grilled chicken and the like usually form the centerpiece of their plates with side salads added for a little color.

So, you’re best bet is to just grab some food, prop up the bar or go to the beach, turn to your neighbor and strike up a conversation. Have's Barbados!


Monday, November 12, 2012

Okay everyone! It's time for the surprise of the wedding!

Marvin and I are hosting a WEDDING CATAMARAN CRUISE!

So for the friends and family joining us in Barbados, please bring some swimsuits and flipflops for this fun outing on Saturday.

It will be from 2-6PM and we will have a private charter for the afternoon.

Lots of fun, sun, music and food.

Can't wait to see you there.

Look at the link above to get an idea of what it looks like.

Love Jessica and Marvin

Random Update

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

With a lot of milestone dates behind me I am amped and geared up about the one in front of me. November 25, 2012 is on the horizon and I will be wed to my best friend/lover, Jessica A. Shepherd. The 'A' is for Awesome contrary to popular belief. I have family and friends coming to the beautiful island of Barbados to witness our union. For those that can't or do not want to make it, it is okay we will have a state-side reception you can bring gifts and money to, to show your support and love. I'm excited. I'm ready. Let's go...

Who's Marrying us!?!?

Sunday, November 25, 2012

We are happy to have someone near and dear to our family that can marry us! Please look at the wedding plans page to get a look at Dr. Emile Hawkins and his wife LIsa.

29 days left and we get to say "I DO"!!

Karaoke Addition!

Friday, November 23, 2012

Michelle Russell is the newly named host of...........


Please see the 'events' page to get the new updates!

Bachelor Party!!?

Saturday, October 13, 2012

As I was not privy to this party............. All I have to say is

"look at their t-shirts.........."

I will let Marvin Jackson update the happenings of his night out with his friends..............

Marvin's More accurate account:

I do not know where those t-shirts came from, they seem photoshoped. The guys and I spent a couple of hours at an evening service then amde our way to a volunteer shelter for battered husbands. Following OU boring victory over saxeT we needed a way to give back to the community. We acually raised close to $1000.00 to help single mothers through school and provide for their young. All-in-all it was a great nioght of giving and helping others.

Wedding Shower

Saturday, October 6, 2012

I had a exquisite wedding shower in TUlsa on October the 6th and I enjjoyed every minute of my visit.

My future mother in law Barbara Jackson came up from Dallas with Malcolm's (Marvins younger brother) girlfriend Lauren.

We started the afternoon as well behaved women and as the afternoon progressed..............we soon became a group of loud, competitive, obnoxious women. I will NOT state who took the title in Obnoxiousness or who was the loudest, however I will state that we had a blast and I truly felt the love from the women gathered around the table at The Bistro in South Tulsa.

A special thanks to the wonderful hosts Taheerah Salim and Desiree Jordan. You girls went all out!!

Family Shout out!!

Sunday, September 23, 2012

This past weekend I spoke to many of my family members and just so everyone knows......... There is a particular family member that is near and dear to my heart who now has the title of

"Proudest Family Member"

She has been my most favourite (if that is even a term) aunt since I was a baby. I know this because I have so many photos with her and we still maintain that relationship.

So when you see Mrs. Jean Russell at the must introduce yourself to her because she will be sure to share many stories and let you know how excited she is.

THanks Aunt Jean for opening this wedsite EVERY DAY....... ha ha ha, it means a lot.

Love Jessica

Invitations are out!

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

So now the invitations have been completed and are out. Look for yours in the mail and we hope to hear from you.

2 major updates........... Well maybe 3

Sunday, July 29, 2012

So we have conquered the Meet the Fockers episode and the Jacksons have met the Shepherds. Mission complete and it was quite a weekend. We had fun, laughed a lot and made many memories. Looking forward to any more family events

Then we have finally ordered the invitations so look for yours in the mail for the official invite

And third.............I have my shoes!! Very exciting.

Wedding Registry

Sunday, July 15, 2012

Okay folks, we experienced the joy of clicking away a vast array of items for our wedding registry and have come up with a list of things that we MUST HAVE.....okay really like. However I must say for someone that didn't want to go to the store to look for items never relinquished the "clicker" the entire time we were there............... I will not reveal any names but there were only 2 people present. I never got to use the clicker.....


Wednesday, July 4, 2012

This week we will be sitting down to order the invitations that will go out to our invited guests! We are so excited and look forward to a small intimate wedding with our loved ones. So be on the look out for your invitations and thanks for checking in!

Weekend Events

Sunday, June 24, 2012

This weekend we have taken the time to appreciate all the love and support from our family and friends. While Marvin is in Beaumont with his family, I have had this weekend to share time dress shopping with my cousin. Vera, Lanvin, Amsale and many more. Can't wait to see him back on Monday, we have an Esperanza Spaulding to attend!

158 Days until, "I Do".

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Chicago to Louisville to Dallas to Beaumont and back to Chicago for the Esperanza Spalding concert. I be on Southwest, American and United only to get back to my baby. I'm researching business ventures, land purchase and retirement options for me and the misses (No kids allowed). I'll talk to you cats later.

Jessica and Marvin launch wedsite!

Sunday, June 3, 2012

Jessica Shepherd and Marvin Jackson launch their personal wedsite at

What has the Groom done?

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

Hey folks... to-date, I have selected my wedding party. I chose guys that I am close to and represent different chapters of my life. I will not provide name because their names are also answers to trivia questions. Next on my to do list is move my stuff from the beautiful and sunny Dallas, Texas to the awesome and culturally rich Chicago, Illinois. Right now I'm at work so...

Getting ready for dress selection

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

As I get all the plans solidified for the wedding and the reception, I guess I should look for a dress.............. So the shopping begins! Not sure which designer to go with or what type of fit will be the best but I'll see what I can come up with!!

The Best Man and the Grooms Men

Thursday, June 14, 2012

The origin of Groomsmen is for them to protect the bride and groom from evil sprits and specifically protect the bride from being stolen form the groom. That last part eliminates a lot of people from the potential groomsman list. Ideally the groomsmen are suppose to be swordsmen/fighters and the Best Man is to be the best of them.

Taking into consideration how much I love this woman and her value to me alive and in attendance I have a huge task in front of me. What I am looking for are skilled fighters, ex-military, crip/bloods and/or ninjas.



Welcome to our wedsite!

We are so excited to share with our family and friends our upcoming nuptials and hope you enjoy the following pages as we countdown to our fabulous wedding!

As you scroll through the pages, we hope that you can get an idea of how much we love each other and how fun much we have together.

This site will create a special way for friends and family to participate and celebrate with us - anytime, from anywhere.

Enjoy browsing these pages for photos and our future plans. Make sure you sign the guestbook!

Love Jessica & Marvin



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